If you’re not sure what you want in a spouse, you need to stop and figure it out on your own or with the help of a coach. It plays with the time and emotions of other serious daters, and it usually ends up confusing, instead of clarifying, your thoughts.
Once you know what you’re looking for in a spouse, you need to evaluate each potential independently, and make your decision to either continue or move on.
Now you find yourself with two dates, neither of which you feel comfortable canceling. It’s happened to me before, and it’s probably the right thing to do, but I can see how it might be impossible, so read on.)So you go out with each date, and hopefully are able to eliminate one from the race right away. Well, now that you’re in this mess, you need to go out with each one again, until you make your decision. What if you’re dating someone and then happen to meet someone else who really dazzles you? You can either continue dating #1 until you’ve reached a decision, or say goodbye and date #2.
Dating both is not an option, as I explained above. The answer to the second question, how to say no, is clear: just say no. You are the only one who controls what you do and with whom you do it.
There is an exception to what I’m saying, which is why I wrote, “you should always to date only one person at a time.” Sometimes, the date that you set with someone gets delayed or pushed back because of illness, work, travel, vacation, or any other reason you can conjure up.
Women not only spent less time looking at a man’s face (when compared with men looking at women); they also moved more quickly onto his other body parts. “So take in her breasts or legs, but don’t dwell on them.” And make the most of your assets, too.As far as friend requesting your date goes, 21 percent of young singles say it's OK to request a friend after 2-3 dates while 11 percent of older singles wait until the relationship is exclusive to do so.