It's a little strange and concerning when someone refuses to call someone a girlfriend or boyfriend. Ultimately, for guys at least, calling someone a "girlfriend" is a step toward commitment.And you women know how scared us guys are of commitment.I wish I had waited and I don't plan to move in with anyone else again until I'm engaged." —Allison, 326.5 years:"My boyfriend and I met freshman year of college and dated for 4 and a half years.Now it's 2 years post-college, and we are moving in together.
But is it too soon for you guys to become exclusive?
The worst time to do this is in the middle of a fight or in the middle of sex.
When asking your guy what he wants and if he wants to make the relationship official, you just need to be blunt. Just say something like this: “I think we’ve been having a lot of fun these past few weeks and I really like you. If the guy says he has no interest in being serious, he means it.
Moving in together is a momentous occasion that marks a serious step forward in a romantic relationship.
That said, it doesn't always mean the momentum will continue to be forward-moving.
We were both 'sure' it was going to be forever.