Just be the cool, confident guy that you are and have a fun, interesting conversation with the women.Let’s face it, playing hard to get works for many women.It creates tension through the give and take of attention.The best way that I have come to understand why playing hard to get works is from Robert B. In his book, , he suggests that there are six principles that influence persuasion: reciprocity, commitment/consistency, social proof, authority, liking, scarcity.Two of the most common reasons that a woman will play hard to get with a guy are: 1. In most cases, they get approached by men who try to amaze them with a pick up line or by guys who are too nervous, too eager or too awkward. He’s being really nice to her and expecting to be rewarded with sex, love and relationship because of it. Many women, especially beautiful women, get hit on all of the time.
Playing hard to get is, however, useful in creating attraction in a potential long term relationship.
Many women think that when they pay hard to get it is only a game they have to play so there are sparks in the relationship. The woman want the men to know about their emotional side and then try to win over a man’s affection instead of giving in to easily.