It all started when my pal Paula asked me to figure out why she wasn't getting a response to her JDate ad. " What I get is that we all want to be loved for exactly who we are. " It wasn't long before news that I'd taken Paula's profile from drab to fab spread far and wide (okay, a couple of people in Brooklyn heard). I've seen the dumb, the dull, and the klutzy; the bitter, the brazen, and the too cute by half.
I didn't have to read beyond her opening sentence—"I like the library! All the exclamation points in the world couldn't save that line. But surely there's a juicier way to bring up your literary fetish.
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For an example of the ramifications, consider this Q&A found on one service: Question: “What is my favorite indoor activity?
”Available answers: Shopping, table tennis, sitting by the fire, reading, watching TV, movies, bowling, sex.
I don't know why, I don't know how, I only know that I was at the supermarket one fine morning, minding my own business, when suddenly I came face to face with "the sun-dried plum." I will tell you right now that I'm a fan of the prune—particularly when it's in Danish form—but the prune was clearly not selling.
For the prune to turn heads (not to mention meet a nice guy, move to the suburbs, and have a couple of baby prunes) it needed a fresh marketing strategy.
In one experiment, a few women who listed sex as their favorite indoor activity removed that tidbit temporarily from their profile. In short, what you write may not be what people see.Selecting sex as your answer, when in the context of a thoughtful essay, may not seem particularly provocative.The problem is, a subscriber can easily run a search for all people who are looking for sex.The mani-pedi specifics determine the level of interest I’m feeling for a pending first date.
Clear polish indicates the lowest level of excitement (unless I’m in a clear polish phase).” or “Define sexy,” but multiple-choice questions with available answers that run the gamut from sexually neutral to unmistakably sexually provocative.